Georgina Clarke left the UK in need of a career break and
on the recommenation of a friend volunteered with JUCONI for 5 months.
“One of my
activities was to spend “special time”, with a nine-year-old
boy called Jonathan, who lived in Trinitaria, the most deprived area of
Guayaquil. Jonathan has had an unstable
life, being passed between his mother and father and physically abused by
various family members. I expected to find a young boy with the life
knocked out of him, but Jonathan won’t be knocked down, he is pretty
unruly and as cool as they come. What became immediately apparent was that
Jonathan was not used to individual attention and asked over and over again
“do I have the gringa all to myself?” Not surprisingly he
seemed to find it very hard to trust people or show any sort of affection
towards them, and especially towards females.
I certainly had some
difficult times with Jonathan, when he was totally uncooperative,
antagonistic or uninterested. However when looking at the overall picture
the time we had together seems to have had various positive effects on him
which I feel has made it a worthwhile venture Above all I think he
benefited in his self-esteem from having someone to give him personal
attention twice a week.”